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How ridiuclous can you get


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Evidently they are considering passing a law to ban teenagers carrying passengers who are not part of their family. How many thousands are still driving around texting and talking on their mobile this would be yet another unenforcable law

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It's a good idea, something has to be tried to reduce the amount of fatalities among young drivers.

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"Any parent who allows an inexperienced driver to carry passengers needs to look at themself in the mirror."

Clearly you are either not a parent or have forgotten how impossible it is control a teenager especially once they get to be an adult at 18.

In fact the thread title itself is perfect for your entire post of 8:51

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fourm member "..but I was once a teenager"

That is so hard to believe, reading your post!! Teenage years are meant to be rebellious, surely?

"..but are completely incapable of governing the behaviour of your offspring?"

You could address that question to countless parents (including HRH our future king).

I think 'Get real' might be the expression you need, but from your child-free ivory tower you probably have never come across it.

Having said that, I agree with your view that a law can be beneficial, even if hard to enforce.

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FM

I'm afraid things have moved on since you were a teenager 40+ years ago. ( I know you must be in your 60s because you posted on here a year or so two back that you didn't need your winter fuel allowance ).

Most teenagers have their own car these days and so are not reliant on using their parents vehicle any more, so, the big stick of do as I say or you don't get to use my car has largely disappeared.

I have brought up 3 children who are all respectable and law abiding individuals and have five grandchildren. ( The last born yesterday ), so I think I'm more qualified than you to comment.

Teenagers are notorious for rebelling against any authority, especially their parents, usually they grow out of it in their early twenties and become human beings again.

Clearly, not being a parent, means you cannot have any real idea of what a modern teenager can put its parents through in their rebellious stage.

If you really were the goody two shoes you claim to have been then you are either using rose coloured spectacles or are not the norm.

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"how impossible it is control a teenager especially once they get to be an adult at 18."

I didn't find it impossible, either before or after he was 18.

Properly reasoned guidance and discussion should be sufficient, if you have done enough in the early years.

My son, now nearly fifty has never driven any of my cars, except one five mile trip, with me, just after he passed his test, si that he could experience the difference of driving an automatic.

Mind you, he's over revved the guts out of some of my motor bikes!

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Grown-up Top Gear presenters Clarkson, Hammond & May amazingly always turn into adolescants when they sit behind the driving-wheel of anything [road vehicle] that moves a sidgeon faster than a dinky toy.

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morddwyd

OK, perhaps I should have said difficult as opposed to impossible, however, I believe my meaning whatever the actual words used was very clear.

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There seems to be a sweeping assumption that all youngsters have responsible parents or that they even know who their parents are.

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"The only reason for a teenager to grow out of their rebellious phase is if they receive the right guidance from their parents. Having the support of the law is very useful for parents as they try and steer their offspring."

Your sweeping generalisation is just that, a sweeping generalisation. The right guidance from parents is certainly not "the only way " they can be influenced to grow out of the rebellious stage. Just as a for instance peer pressure can play a large part, getting in with the right or wrong crowd can have a very strong influence.

"It is a common error to assume that personal experience is the only route to knowledge. It often leads to the further error of assuming that one's individual experience is universal."

I didn't say personal experience is the only route to knowledge, you've made that up, however I believe that most of those with personal experience of bringing up children have a far better understanding of the issues involved and how to deal with them than people who have never had that privilege.

I also believe that millions of other parents would agree with me and that in many areas personal experience is by far the best source of knowledge available.

"The young person may pay for the car but the only way they can insure it is for dad to say it is his second car and the youngster is only an irregular user.)"

I seem to recall reading that insurance companies are wised up to this trick and take tough action against those found to be employing this ruse.

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