I'm sure the third option is available in NOF.
I'm now using version 11, but I do remember having some problems with uploading via version 9.
Another solution, which I used at the time, is to use a separate FTP client such as Filezilla (free).
Publish your site locally in NOF and then copy the files across with the FTP client.
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