Have you run the uninstaller click here then rebooted. Then download the player click here .
I downloaded the uninstaller and installer on to my desktop ie saved instead of run. Went off line and ran the uninstaller and rebooted. Ran the installer then went online and opened my browser.Where flash is needed right click the coloured box on top left and click open. You should get a warning popup to ask if you wish to install flash 9 active x.