That sounds right regarding the email, don't forget that the end user will have the same thing happen. Their email client should open and your email address will be in the 'send to' box.
With the reset button, is the button within the boundary of the form and not outside it ?
If you highlight the button, then view the html code, it should look like this
<input type="reset" name="Reset" value="Reset">
I can't tell you how to navigate to view the html code in Frontpage because I use Dreamweaver. But I would imagine it is in your view options.
By the way did you get the border sorted out ?