If you dont recognise the incoming connection, just tick the create rule box then deny permission. When Kerio has accumulated a set of rules, the connection popups will pretty well vanish. Don't forget you will have software on the PC like anti virus that will need to access the net for updates, when the popup for those crops up create rule and permit access. I've been using Kerio for years and it's ages since I've received a warning.
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